Please, in the name of everything Holy, if you are struggling in your style or style advice, seek the help of GQ magazine. I just finished the last issue, and I must say, I really enjoyed it. It is a perfect blend of lifestyle, fashion, editorials, and interviews. I know some guys pass over it as snobby, overpriced nonsense, but it is really a decent magazine.
With the reputation of GQ I would say it is the equivalent of VOGUE to women. It is the Holy Grail of high fashion.
Read, and may the force be with you.